I dont care if i m right or wrong!

Today morning, just half an hour back, got this news about the girl Vinothini!

Who is vinothini? she is just a normal girl who had completed her B.Tech , a 23 year old, living positively

Okay, i understand your question? what happened to her?----

She died today morning due to breathing issues, because of an acid attack on her last november by a psycho who was forcing her to accept his proposal! When she rejected, he just threw acid on this young girl who was an employee in a chennai based company!

Coming from a middle class family, her family hasn't been able to support her medical expenses, few weeks back an article came in "Ananda vikatan" a famous tamil magazine, regarding her condition and asked for help.

Due to that article, i came to know about this poor girl and her sufferings, they had given a number  in the article, asking for people who was willing to help! I wasn't having any money as i m not working now! I wanted to help her, then i thought, obviously, so many people would have contacted the number, because ananda vikatan is a very famous magazine, raising funds wouldn't be so difficult for them.

Though it hurt me little, but frankly speaking, i didn't give the importance i must have given to this issue same like jyothi.

Jothi as entire india remembers, same 23 year old soul, was gang raped (by a minor too) by group of assholes and thrown out of the running bus and died by the end of last year. Entire nation was struggling for her, as it had happened in the capital city, the victim was alive at that time, made the issue more hot! (sorry for the word, hot, but that is of course the way these guys define flash news now a days, how ever sad it may be)

She died on december,  as i was hoping for riots, nothing happened, the confused indian youth carried candles to offer her peace, i wanted to scream my throat out, you damned buggers, she dont want peace and candles, she wants judgement. But of course , i am not a popular actress or television personality so my voice was heard only among my readers and friends.

Now coming back to vinothini, this girl just, like jothi- is a complete innocent! Have done nothing except rejecting a psycho. And most of the photos shows in the media give us a clear glimpse, that she is a chudithar wearing, shy indian girl, No sexy dresses folks, to seduce you all vishwamithraa's.,,, damn

So dont go and blame the dress now! She was beautiful, a typical indian looking beautiful girl! thats all right? Hence the only mistake is, she was born beautiful, period.She was attacked, because she wasn't listening to man's ego.

The ironic thing about our country is - if the mistake is from the men side also, it is always,woman who will remain the victim- alwaysssss. Why so?

My heart pains as it had done for jothi too-  but imagining the pain due to the acidic effects on her burned skin! I dont want to imagine that- it pains me hard.

I am not gonna advice or suggest..its just that...if i have a son in future,

"I will teach him to treat woman well, to respect her feelings, i will instruct him since the minute he is born, if he ever treats any women wrongly, including me, he is gonna be punished severely for that attitude he has , thats just the only solemn punishment i can give it to myself and my son"

Hope every women does the same, last but not the least, the villain always gets the basic training at home. So mothers, please ask your sons to treat woman right.

with pain
Prathi surendran