Yes, we can, to some extent. But, not completely.
Why we think we should change somebody???
Simple......
That particular person, we want to change, does not possess characteristics, which we want.
So, we cant accept someone without our desirable qualities...and we try to change them.
Its a simple equation
When we don't get our desirable results, we get hurt, sad , emotional and angry.
Does all it necessary??? Nope!
Accepting a person, by the way they are made is very very difficult. I understand.
But, making somebody they are not, that is also a mistake.
We can make them shine with positive changes....For ex: Not biting their nails. :)
Few key factors we can change.....
Like
- If someone is very lazy, they are not born lazy, they are brought up that way, hence we can give them some positive physical activity , hence they will be happy...
- Motivating someone positively
- Listening to others
- Truly caring for them
- Reason with them, when they are not agreeing with us
- Never get angry with someone, for not listening to you
- Try to have 4-5 perceptions , hence we could accept one, if we are wrong.
- Nothing wrong in accepting our mistakes
- Do everything with a smile....
- Be very careful with your words, do not force, try to influence , silently
We wont let others be themselves, if we do the same...
Life is to live
Not to control
Be happy with your buddies, friends and family
After all , that is what we are all living for!!!
Good night
Always with love
Prathipa
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