Goodness...

Humble friends,
I have recently read a book called "the secret". Okay!??? What is so special about the book?!!!??
We all think "sometimes our days are good , sometimes its not" and we all dwell on our problems so much as the day passes.
And sometimes it affects the mood of the other person around us well. Right?
It could be your wife or husband or parents or kids etc.... Sounds like you?
Yes you are the right person to read this article!
And what makes us happy and our life a happily lived one???
Can anyone answer me?!
Why to go and target other's feelings..
Let me take mine..
I thought when i was in Deutsche bank if i get a job for good pay i will be very happy.
One year really struggled a lot to get into a new company and finally i got into cognizant for a good salary and kinda likable people in office.
Am i happy? i have got what i wanted right?Good job! good pay! so why i arent too exhilarated about my life now?!!! no even i didnt have an idea until i read this book
Its just that...We think we will happy , when we get "degree" or a new hi tech phone or a laptop etc. but thats not what gives us happiness.
Its just that how we enjoy our lifes everyday!!!
You wanna enjoy ur life...Hmm what can we do??
First dont make rules!!! Rules are meant to be broken.
There is no rule A and rule b...its just you and your life and your happiness.
Everyone cant be mother teresa or vivekananda!!! But beleive me if we want to be happy!!
We have to make someone happy.
I dont like or i hate is the worse words in the history,
Cos one example... It gives the other person you hate more power.
We spend so much time and energy and giving so much importance to that particular person.
If you dont like something, IGNORE.... We can change ourselves right?!!!
:) :) :) :) :)
I saw a movie called pasanga in Tamil, which bagged 2 national awards for the kids acted in the movie.
In that movie there is a scene ," where the hero says, " i didnt take single LIC policy also this month, Kinda not feeling good today? So the heroine doesnt reply to him, suddenly keeps her hands inside his shirt pocket , take away some money from his purse and Calls a begger woman who sits in front of a temple, and give away the money to the old lady' saying its the boy friends money and ask the old lady to have food for that particular day"
And later the heroine explains her love, How that begger lady was the mother of 5 and was ignored and thrown out by her daughter in laws and living in temple and suffering.
Hence the lover had fed the old lady for one time a day!!!!
She explains to him when i m upset i will do like this and it will makes me feel better!!!
So the hero will say ,' i m so lucky to have you "
True?! Y??? Cos the girl is so sensible and knew how to make herself and her guy happy by doing happy deeds to people around you.
What a sensible scene?!!! and beautiful too....
Its what life is all about..
When you do good deed ...Good things will definately happens around you..
When you do bad..ofcourse that will return back to you as well...
But we think we only get bad stuff in our life..
Everyone is else is happy,why i m not Totally untrue?!!Yeah..
Because everyone will always have their own set of problems, trust me its not problems.
Its the challenges of our life and the check god is giving is how we tackling the environment and the situation around us.
If we want to be happy, we have to make some one happy today!
If we say we dont like somebody, we are giving more power to that person ,
If we say i hate money , it will never stay in our hand...
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Transfer our inner thoughts and keep saying positive things....
I m great today...I m great everyday,,,
My life is great..
Absolutely fantastic...
Listening this words makes us feels fantastic isin't?
Yes life may looks complicated, but most of the time its very simple, its how we understand the life.
I may not be a matured person to comment on life difficulties and positives.
Its just a sharing on the book and the effect it had on me..
Instruct yourself to be positive and Never beleive the negative inner hearts suggestions.
If your heart says , hey u r not beautiful
Stand infront of the mirror everyday morning and tell 100 times to your mirror ..i m an extremely beautiful person.
See the changes in you after a month.
Never change the way you live, just change the way you think.
Beleive me its gives an extra ordinary force & beauty to your life you wont beleive the change in you...
Goodness continues..
Fondly,
Prathi