Commiting to yourself

We procrastinate- mostly- due to the fact, we dont keep our commitments to ourselves.

• we say - i m gonna buy this dress today- but suddenly some other work pops in, we forget about our shopping and get on with the other work in hand.-
• we say- i am gonna cook chicken curry today- and when you check into the kitchen- definitely chicken masala powder missing- you change the plan and prepare something else

If we analyze both these situations- keenly- what we can understand is--

Lack of planning-

Firstly

When we plan something- we must take a oath to our self, that we are keeping the commitment. Nothing should be interfering in your decision to complete that action....

It probably be keeping the house clean, de cluttering, reading, writing, walking, jogging, cooking, dancing...whatsoever...keeping the words- to your own self- makes your inner heart proud of yourself..

you will feel- when you complete the action- i had done it... Its my work- i did it- that personal satisfaction is priceless

 Its a feeling- you will understand-only when you experience it...

So plan your work- hobby-time-everything. Sometimes you tend to forget what you had planned- hence the god given gift to you is---- POST IT's

Please believe in "POST IT" s

They are life changers..

I forget easily- hence most of the time i believe in post its-

1. I write it down- what has to be done 
2. I write it down- what time it has to be done
3. I write it down- how quickly it can be done
4. I write it down- how neatly it can be done

Trust me it works- especially for a person like me- i used to be careless- not anymore

I am not becoming a perfectionist- i became a person- who does her work correctly and neatly.

Life is so easy when you jot things down. Do no be scared to do that! Have courage  and i can do anything i want to do in this world - attitude

Fill your study room or bed room with posters - which says- something about life and its positivity.

Do not let anybody-including your spouse- parents- children- speak negativity at home. Encourage them to be your friends and ask them to participate in your excellent planning and commitment to your self activity.

It works. Do no forget.

When i feel sad, down, angry - i remember these words by the great vivekananda

"All power is within you- you can do anything and everything- dont think you are weak- stand up and express the divinity within you"

These words rock my head all the time. They are  magical. So, choose your own words and rock on the world

A writer
Prathi surendran