Day 35- Target 365- How to be strong in your decisions!!!

Always thinking twice, thrice or 100 times before making a decision is not wrong, in fact its super

right. But after you made the decision stick to it. Don't get confused

Asking everybody around you, whether its a good decision??? That's not right!!!

For ex : Joining a foreign language course.

1) . How am i going to pay the fees?

2) . How am i going to study? its totally a new language???!!!

3) . How am i going to cope up with time management? Already i have so many things to do!!!!

4) . The course is at weekend? is it really worth investing my time and energy, instead i can go to a

       mall or shopping, which will relax me????

5) . Instead of studying, why don't i do something else? etc etc etc...

These negatives views make you not committed and non- responsible person.

I just gave an example here, i m sure before making a decision or after we made the decision, we might think in so many angles or ways!!!

And one important and irritating work we do is , asking everybody around us.....

"Hey pal, is it worth studying a new language? Have you ever learned one?

That particular friend would have no idea what he/she was telling, hence, he will give brilliant idea of
no experience how to not go ahead or

some good friends probably say, ya you can go ahead.

Its entirely depends on the friendship circle you have.

The bottom line is....

• Don't rely on others opinion on your personal life or decisions...
• Ask for information from everybody, like where the institute located, how much we have to pay them etc etc
• If someone you know already going for classes, how is the teachings...

These are all useful questions, which will give you an idea.

As vivekananda quoted

"Listen to everybody, but make your own decisions"

Hence asking about details is not wrong, if someone voicing their opinion, listen to them!!

Nothing wrong in listening...

But, Make your own final call

Make your own final decision.

All the best

Always with love
Prathipa