I was writing about how to? what to? etc in my blog recently!
Then i suddenly realized, why should not i write about the social issues in my blog along with the motivation and inspiration part!
Living in a country like india, after 60 years of independence, we still believe, so many non- sense activities in the name of culture, conservatism , society
Most of them are crap!
But how many of us, are daring the government or the conservative society!
Indians are taught to be silent !
Most of the time, we are silent!
But, i m kind of pissed of with the environment and the people's attitude!
Here, is what it is!
I personally believe widows should get married again!
Its happening, but how, Very very slowly! One in 1000 getting re-married after her husbands death!
But, leave about parents, society all that unnecessary non sense,
It is the guys, who are unbelievably stupid, which makes me extremely angry and sad!
"i heard one of my neighbor lost her husband, after 3 years of constant convincing, the poor widow girl accepted to re-marry,
This girl happened to be one of the good looking girl in that particular community, one of her own relative himself agreed to marry this girl, all the drama started after 1 year of their marriage, the new husband, started abusing the girl , asking about her previous husband and their sexual encounters, after one more year of getting physically abused by him, she got divorced"
Its very sad, isn't it? When something bad happens to you, you hope one day everything will be fine.
And that one day comes, yet its not what we hoped for!
Trust me, it would have been a tremendous pain to that girl who hoped for sunlight in her life!
So guys, dont pretend you are broad minded, if you really aren't!
Try to be honest! hence, we can prevent such kind of situations in future!
And still i believe widows should re-marry , after getting to know the guy real well(which is the most difficult part, i agree)
Girls need to be really cautious and sensible!
Prejudiced indian society! :(
Always with love
Prathipa
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