How to understand others, and how to make them feel comfortable with you!
Even i m new to this area , due to the fact,
- I am judgmental
- I am over-critical and cynical
- I talk a lot, even with strangers--Bottom line(only about myself, not about them)
- I m either over friendly or not at all friendly
- I personally thought, people don't know how to understand me :)
I listen very very less.
I am a very good speaker, not a listener.
People don't feel comfortable around you, if you keep talking about yourself.
When we want everybody to like us (i m not kidding, almost all of us, are like to be liked)
We should listen to them, understand them and empathize their needs and importance.
Who would not feel comfortable, talking about them!!!
Every one will be, so the trick is to
Care, and care a lot...
I know, its not easy
Its not easy for me!! I am kinda self oriented, cynical, judging sort of person, for me being
good and understanding to everyone around me is very difficult, but that's the way life is!
That's the way we will find meaning in our life!!
I would like to quote few words from the book ,
SECRET THE POWER
"When you want to be loved, love people around you, when you want to become recognized, recognize people around you"
Life is a reflection, It gives us what we give back!!
So at office or any people managing place....
Try to understand them and see the view in their perspective.
You will feel , beneath, all humans are very nice people!!
When we love, we will be loved!!
Always with love
Prathipa
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